Nikki, Toni, Iya

Just think of Nikki Gil, Toni Gonzaga, and Iya Villania. They are great examples on why you should wait. Love is a decision and should be a decision on both parties. Love is not based on your feelings because feelings do go away. As time goes by, those kilig moments won't be there as much as you want, but marriage founded on God, friendship, and respect will be there to make the relationship strong, and grow. 

The perfect example of love is in 1 Corinthians 13. Read it, ponder on it, and keep it in your heart. There's no secret formula when it comes to love, but the Bible has been very clear about it. It's all out in the open, all you have to do is follow what it says. 

1 Corinthians 13 (NLT)

13 If I could speak all the languages of earth and of angels, but didn’t love others, I would only be a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I had the gift of prophecy, and if I understood all of God’s secret plans and possessed all knowledge, and if I had such faith that I could move mountains, but didn’t love others, I would be nothing. 3 If I gave everything I have to the poor and even sacrificed my body, I could boast about it;[a] but if I didn’t love others, I would have gained nothing.

4 Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud 5 or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. 6 It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. 7 Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.

8 Prophecy and speaking in unknown languages[b] and special knowledge will become useless. But love will last forever! 9 Now our knowledge is partial and incomplete, and even the gift of prophecy reveals only part of the whole picture! 10 But when the time of perfection comes, these partial things will become useless.

11 When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things. 12 Now we see things imperfectly, like puzzling reflections in a mirror, but then we will see everything with perfect clarity.[c] All that I know now is partial and incomplete, but then I will know everything completely, just as God now knows me completely.

13 Three things will last forever—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love.

GOOD MORNING!